It's been a loooooooong week. Truly, thank God it is Friday!
The low-light of my week was losing Bubble (don't worry, found her again and all is well). My all time worse parenting moment happened on Wednesday when we decided a trip to the zoo would be the perfect way to spend the day (had been solo-parenting since Mon and kids were missing their Dad and acting up a tad so REALLY needed to get out and about).
While at the playground (the one with the big "egg" slide) my Dad rang with a computer problem. Still being somewhat responsible I showed Bubble where I would be sitting and carried on helping Dad. Kept my eyes on them (I swear) especially Rangi as he is a runner. But Bubble is so good. But she got disorientated and couldn't see me.
And now for the miracle...for some reason before we left for the zoo I flashed on a piece of advice from one of my best friends, my parenting "guru". She writes her cell phone number on her kids arms in marker pen when they go to public gatherings/crowded places. I have never done this before as Bubble sticks to me like glue. Lately though Rangi has got a bit too brave and has taken to running ahead of me - man he is fast!!
So, on Wed morning I decided to write the number on their arms and explained to Bubble that if we lost each other that this was my cell number.
And it worked!! A lovely lady (Ms J) found Bubble and rang me. Just at the point where panic was starting to sweep over me and I had a horrible thought "Oh God this is like the movies" and was yelling out Bubbles name.
I was feeling guilty as I explained she never walks off. I did manage to thank her. And she actually praised me for writing my number down, thinking it was a brilliant idea.
I then rang my friend and through a few tears thanked her again for sharing her parenting advice (she is an awesome Mum!!!!).
Thank you again, am very lucky to have you as my friend xx
I am actually embarrassed to be telling you this story, I have only done it so that I could pass on this tip.
Lyns
xx